We're definitely not on the same side. You believe America can continue to run an effective caste system and commit foreign genocide as long as there is always someone worse on the ballot. You're shocked that people don't flock to enable fascism lite by voting for lesser evil candidates.
In fact I did show up to vote against Trump but I won't show up for the wholly owned subsidiary calling himself Gavin Newsom. Instead of throwing various races or genders under the bus you should focus on convincing your fellow "centrists" to for once not insist on nominating a Democrat whose only qualification is being better than one of the worst people who has ever lived.